Men refer to me as the "fox". I think I look pretty damn good and I have a sexy hot body. I am 34 and twice divorced by men that did not appreciate me. I never went out with a black guy until I met a real black stud in a bar. We talked and danced before he asked me to go home with him. I refused the invitation, but gave him my phone number. He called several times before I agreed to go to a concert with him. We had a few drinks before going our separate ways. I went to a private club with him the next time he called. I guess he got me at a weak point because I did go home with him. We kissed and fondled, but no more. I eventually agreed to move in with him and everything is positive. He is more loving and affectionate than either of my husbands. When we have sex it is my choice of what we will do. I have had straight, oral and anal sex with him and it has all been great. I could not ask any more of any man. Life is good again. Kelli Trimble